Safari excels in blocking trackers from monitoring what you are doing on the internet. Current statistics are available on the Homepage in Safari and for mine it shows that it has blocked 185 trackers representing 51% of the websites I have visited, with the most frequent tracker being Google. It is no surprise that Google generates a large part of their revenue by gathering the information on its users and selling that data to advertisers and Chrome will facilitate those efforts. For a quick comparison on the 2, you can look here:
Safari Privacy - Apple
You can certainly send feedback to Apple here for a request to have the ability to remove the history without affecting the Cookies/Cache.
Feedback - Safari - Apple
You do have the option to delete data on individual websites, so you do not need to clear all websites data. With other browsers deleting the entire history is commonly used as a security measure to prevent cross-site tracking, but with Safari those are already prevented so you do not get the same benefit of deleting your History or even the need to do that to prevent cross-site tracking.
I do understand for privacy reasons why you may want to remove a website from your history and currently on Safari there are 2 choices, other than deleting all data. Either delete that individual website from your history along with its cookies or use Private Browsing where the history is not stored.
Incognito Mode in Chrome has been under fire and Google has recently been fined for still collecting data on users even when using Incognito Mode, which may be the reason why Chrome users are more prone to deleting website history as a false sense of security, where it is actually the Cookies that store the user data on the website.
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